I don't mean to...

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13 July 2026

I don't mean to...

We use this expression before we say something that might sound bad. For example if we say 'I don't mean to criticise' we are probably going to say something negative but we don't want the other person to be offended.

Written: No

Spoken: Yes

Formal: No

Informal: Yes

Example 1

Sorry. I don't mean to complain, but this steak is completely cold.

I'm terribly sorry sir. I'll take it back to the kitchen right away.

Example 2

I don't mean to be nosy, but did I just overhear you say you're getting a divorce?

Well you are being nosy! And frankly, it's none of your business.

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